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Signed by the Author

Order direct and I’ll sign your copy myself. Tell me who it’s for and I’ll write a personal note.

The Book

Rules of Engagement

Most couples don't lack love, they lack rhythm. Rules of Engagement is 18 chapters of biblical strategy for the battles every marriage faces: how you fight, how you pray, how you forgive, how you handle family and friends, and how you rebuild when something breaks.

Inside

What You'll Walk Away With

A way to fight without wounding each other. A plan for setting boundaries with the people you love. A faith that holds when life gets heavy. And a clear path back to each other when you've drifted. I made the mistakes so you don't have to.

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$17.99, Signed and Personalized

Every copy ordered here is signed by me, with a personal note if you'd like one. It makes a great gift for newlyweds, engaged couples, or the two of you. Free U.S. shipping on orders over $49..

Rules of Engagement is a Christ‑centered guide to resolve battles, rebuild closeness, and thrive together.

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Choose each other, daily.

Choose each other, daily.

Choose each other, daily.

Matthew Sams is a husband, father, and marriage coach passionate about helping couples build Christ-centered relationships that last. Alongside his wife, Mary, he leads “Married for More,” a community inspiring couples to pursue purpose, partnership, and oneness in marriage.

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